My name is Nicola, I’m from the west coast of New Zealand and I’m doing my best at life just like you are. There’s a couple of things I go by to make my life a little easier when I get caught up with my own thoughts. If its a clear night, I look up. If i’m in a bad mood, I do my best to stop thinking bad things. oooooh the mind is a powerful thing, but you know what? I reckon i’ve got life by the balls, project positive things and positive things will happen, alot of things are pretty distracting though, I avoid television at all costs, I listen with an open mind and heart, and surround myself with the people that let me be me. Music and smiling is a universal language that makes my heart sing, so smile more, sing, and go outside and dance with the wind. Have a lovely day.